Probably the worst types of people are the ones that shut you down to make themselves look cooler than you, for example if you get excited and squeal and they’re like “woah what was that..” or if you talk loudly because you’re passionate about something and they say “relax dude wow” and then give a look… Like fuck off stop trying to act so cool and collected. You don’t seem more mature you just seem fucking boring and monotonously placid.
firstly, no matter what you do or who you are, some people are going to dislike you. secondly, i doubt as many people hate you as you think. thirdly, a lot of hate is evoked from jealousy. fourth, if you have no enemies that means you’re too much of a people pleaser. i would rather have a few close friends that respect my views and opinions than change my views and opinions so that 100 people i dont care about will like me. also, if people dont like you for something you know youve done wrong, make it right by apologizing and changing that bad part so that you are a good person. and if people still hate you, then its their problem, not yours. i used to get really wound up when i heard things people i didnt know existed had been saying stuff about me i never knew happened, but then over time i stopped caring because: 1. i simply didnt even know they existed and 2. they were wrong
also, a lot of people dislike me because i cut off my friendship with them, but i know that i am a good friend if i am anything and i wont waste time on a friendship where someone disrespects me, because that means i accept the lack of respect they are giving me and i think i deserve it. I will stand up for something i think is right, no matter what the consequences are: whether i lose friends or people dislike me. i know in the end the people that you really need will always be there. and if you know you have not harmed anyone or acting in spite, then theres nothing to worry about. how many people do you really need anyways?
and lastly, one of my favourite quotes: “You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, but theres still going to be someone that hates peaches.”
dont waste time worrying about shit like that!